Friday, October 28, 2016

Red Ribbon Week

This past week (October 24-28) was Red Ribbon Week at school.  It's an anti-drug/school spirit week where the kids are encouraged to wear thematic or crazy clothing.  It's always fun for the kids (and me) to do this as we've done this in the past at other schools.  I didn't know it was an actual thing.  Like a nationwide thing that's been around since 1985, developed to honor a fallen DEA agent.  I always thought of it as a school spirit thing.  Whatever it is, it's a nice change in the everyday routine of school.  Here's how the kids participated this week.

Monday, 10/24:  Don't Let Drugs Twist Your Mind! Wear red.



Tuesday, 10/25:  Sock-It to Drugs!  Wear crazy colored or mismatched socks.


Wednesday, 10/26:  Team-Up Against Drugs!  Wear your favorite team shirt.


Thursday, 10/27:  Too Bright for Drugs and Bullying!  Wear your brightest or fluorescent colors.


Friday, 10/28:  Color My World Drug-Free!  Wear purple and white spirit wear.


Friday, October 21, 2016

Election 2016

As election day approaches, I can't help but join in the fray and comment on my favorite candidate.  I mean, usually, I follow the adage of not talking politics or religion, but I must say my peace.


Yes, Leah decided to run for SCA (Student Cooperative Association) President at school.  Only fifth graders can run for president (and secretary) and out of the blue, Leah came home a couple weeks ago and said she planned on running.

Leah had to fill out an application in order to run, and her teacher had to fill out a written recommendation before she was accepted as a candidate.  She had to write and turn in a speech, which Matt helped her with and she was allowed two campaign posters, the cost of which could not exceed $10.00.  I helped Leah with her posters.    There were also strict campaign rules stating candidates could not hand out candy, etc. but they were allowed to pass out flyers.  Matt came up with a slogan and I created the flyers for Leah.


Each candidate was filmed giving their speech and then they were all broadcast over the school's closed-circuit TV, which they use for morning announcements.  Leah handed out flyers and even had Aaron pass out flyers to his class.  (Third through fifth grades are the voting population at White Oaks Elementary.)

Leah's been very excited.  She really wanted to win.  I don't know where this all has come from.  Leah has come so far since we left Japan, let alone since she began preschool in Stafford, VA, where initially she wouldn't even talk with people other than Matt & me.  Leah's best friend, Katelyn, decided to run for Secretary.  I'm glad they didn't have to compete against each other.  I'm not sure exactly how many kids were running for president.  At the beginning, Katelyn told me there were eight kids but today I think Leah told me there were three.  It makes a difference because the second- and third-place vote-getters become representatives.

So today was the big day:  Election Day.  Earlier in the week we told Leah we would have a special Election Day dinner tonight where Leah would get to choose the menu.  We told her we were proud of her regardless of the outcome.  If she won, it would be a victory dinner.  If she lost, we would celebrate her bravery for entering the competition.  Leah chose a menu of "brinner," which is breakfast for dinner:  pancakes, eggs, bacon.  Oh, and she wanted chocolate cake.  Leah's always all about the chocolate.  Sadly, our dinner tonight was not a victory dinner.

Leah lost the election (but her friend Katelyn won).  Leah was devastated.  Apparently they announced it at the end of the school day and then Leah had to stand her safety patrol post.  She was standing there, at the crosswalk, crying her eyes out.  I gave her a hug and told her how proud I was of her and that it was ok to be sad but she had to do her job.  She tried to hold it together while I went to pick up Aaron.  Aaron and I then met up with Leah and the three of us walked home.  I held Leah's hand.  She told me she had really wanted to win.  When we got home, I let Leah and Aaron lick the beaters I had used to make the icing for her cake.  I'm so glad I had set them aside when I had cleaned up because the chocolate really perked her up.  She and Aaron then played out in the backyard for awhile and by the time they started playing Legos, she was back to her old self.  I think she is still disappointed, but she hasn't cried since she ate the chocolate icing.  She was happy with dinner and we were all happy about chocolate cake.  We finished the evening with our usual FFMN (Friday Family Movie Night).  We watched Bridge to Terabithia.

Leah wanted oval-shaped pancakes.

I made Leah a cake topper.


I cannot reiterate enough how amazing it is that Leah decided to run for President.  When she was young, she didn't even want to play on the playground if there were other kids were there.  In second grade, even though classmates were friendly with her, she really didn't have any true friends that she played with on a regular basis and she had a hard time integrating into games kids were playing on the playground during recess.  Now, in fifth grade, she's a safety patrol, she's chosen to learn the cello and try for a leadership position.  Leah's really flourished since we returned to America.  It's as if she took the opportunity when she arrived in a new city and school to re-invent herself.  There are still speed bumps along the way, but Leah's really racing ahead and Matt and I are her biggest fans.


Saturday, October 15, 2016

We Love Lucy

I have this "wacky calendar" app on my phone that gives me a daily look at out-of-the-ordinary "holidays."  Some are fun to celebrate, like "Taco Day" and "Chocolate Day" and some are better known than others, like "May the Fourth."  This morning when I looked at my wacky calendar, it listed "I Love Lucy Day."  When I checked the news afterward, I saw where today is the 65th anniversary of the I Love Lucy show.

We love Lucy.  I'm happy to say that Leah and Aaron appreciate the genius of Lucille Ball.  OK, that may be over-reaching:  they think Lucy is hilarious.  The show is available on Amazon Prime so we've watched many episodes.  Sometimes, we have to explain the significance of a guest star, like Bob Hope, but most things just translate easily.   "Lucy Does a TV Commercial" (Vitameatavegamin) and "Job Switching" (chocolate factory) are of course favorites.  Today, to celebrate, we watched a two-episode special colorized version from CBS that we DVR'd when it aired featuring "Lucy Visits Grauman's" and "Lucy and John Wayne."  It's one of Aaron's favorites.

The I Love Lucy show is great for us to watch as a family because we all enjoy it, it's not some crazy cartoon and Matt and I don't have to worry about inappropriate content.  The funny thing about watching the show lately is I've come to realize that Ricky (Desi Arnaz) looks a lot like my dad did during the same time period.  It might just be a 1950s thing.  I used to think my dad's celebrity doppelganger was Donald O'Connor in Singin' in the Rain, but I think Desi is a better match.  My dad was Caucasian Ricky Ricardo--you be the judge.

Richard vs. "Ricky"

Friday, October 14, 2016

15 Months in 15 Minutes

Do you remember those old Fed Ex commercials with the fast-talking guy?  Well, I can't talk fast and I can't write fast, but I thought it might be easiest, since I am so behind in my blogs, to give a quick synopsis of what has been going on the last 15 months.  Trust me, some of these will definitely have their own expanded blog entries, but in the meantime, let me bring you up to speed.

We spent three weeks in Florida...


...and had fun in the sun and visited with friends and family.


We also bought a new car.


We drove from Florida to Virginia via Atlanta where we stayed with our friends, Alicia and Kyle, in Marietta.


We moved into our house in military housing in Virginia Beach.


We explored our new city and found fun things to do.


We caught up with much of Matt's family...


...and the kids started their new school.


On October 25, 2015, my Dad died...


...and we inherited his cats, Ladybird...


...and Shadow.


Aaron made his 1st Holy Communion.


We've taken many micro-vacations:  EPCOT...


...Washington, DC...


...Baltimore...


 ...Philadelphia...


...and Shenandoah Valley.


We've also tried to explore our own city.



We've definitely kept busy these past 15 months and now we're busy getting ready for Halloween, which will come faster than the F-18 Hornets that fly overhead nearly everyday here.  (I think the unofficial motto of Virginia Beach is "I [Heart Emoji] Jet Noise.")  Now you know what I've been up to; what about you?

Friday, September 30, 2016

Quote of the Month: September 2016

Guess who's back?  Metaphorical speaking, of course, as I have been here for awhile now. Where is here?  Virginia Beach, VA.  It would be hard to believe that it's been over a year since my last post if it weren't for all the grammatical errors.  Obviously, I haven't been writing for a long time. (Can you say, "sentence fragments,"?)  Much has happened since our return to America--new car, new house, new school, travel, old friends, new friends--you get the gist. I have many things to share for those who are interested in reading them.  I've written hundreds of blog entries in my head. I have yet to figure out how to telepathically transcribe them so for now, we'll all have to be content with my random pieces here and there. And unfortunately, I did not tell all the stories of our time in Japan as I had originally intended so going forward, don't expect my posts to have any chronological or thematic order to them. You get what you get.  (Just call me Forrest and enjoy my digital box of chocolate.)  I'm unapologetic in my lack of consistency and diligence to my blog.  My personal mantra can be traced back to John Lennon.

Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans. - John Lennon, "Beautiful Boy (Darling Boy)"


I will make a concerted effort going forward to not have such big gaps of time between blog entries.  Until the next one, here is my beautiful boy.

Aaron, on the first day of school.